Coaching
Our Process
We partner with couples by walking through
4 stages of growth.
We begin by pausing to consider what God says about us and about marriage. What does it mean that we are created in his image? What are God’s purposes in marriage?
We then hold up a mirror so you can see what it’s like to be on the other side of you. This is self-awareness. This is a sometimes painful (but always beautiful) gift.
We progress by equipping you to humbly look at your spouse through the lens of social awareness with curiosity and kindness. What makes him or her tick? What are their inborn tendencies? How does their home of origin story continue to impact them today? What do they need to thrive?
All of this leads to creating a map of your future. Where is God taking you? What do you and your spouse want to see change? What do you really want to do? What could you do to move forward? What will you do to move forward?
Like to know more about our coaching process? Click below for a brief video from Tom outlining what coaching looks like for couples.
What Does It Look Like?
Image
We are created in God’s image and designed to reflect his beauty and goodness uniquely through our marriage relationship.
Mirror
We develop our Emotional Intelligence as we become more self-aware and intentionally shift from reacting to responding.
Lens
We keep growing our Emotional Intelligence by seeing our spouse through the lens of social-awareness and learning how to build stronger, more empathetic relationships.
Map
We map out a better future through a coaching conversation that involves goal formation, growing awareness, and a path forward built on concrete action steps.
