After 20 years of coaching church planters, pastors and Christian leaders one thing is clear; marriages are struggling. We should know. We have been rebuilding our marriage over the past 15 years, by God’s grace, after Tom’s ministry burnout. Step by step we are moving from isolation toward integration and from self-protection toward deeper connection. 

As God mends our marriage we’ve started to dream again. “What would a healthy and impactful marriage look like?” Today we are stepping into partnership with our family, in ministry, and as a couple. After 34 years of marriage we believe our best days are ahead of us as we pursue kingdom vision from a solid covenant foundation. 

Would you like to join us?

 Tom and Sandi have 3 children and live in South Carolina. They enjoy tennis, walking the beach with Rocky (their Boykin Spaniel) and playing with their grandchildren.

Our Vision

Imagine the Impact when Christian Couples:

  • Enjoy spending time together outside of work and obligation

  • Do the needed storywork that results in more freedom, less shame, and greater levels of integration

  • Wisely discern the difference between problems to solve and tensions to manage

  • Know themselves well enough to lead themselves effectively (individually and as a couple)

  • Continue moving into deeper experiences of intimacy

  • Share their lives and their stories in ways that redemptively reveal the grace and truth of Jesus Christ

  • Pursue God’s calling with clarity, passion and humility

How would these couples themselves be impacted?

How would this change their relationships with their children and what ultimately gets passed down?

Who else would notice this living demonstration of the gospel and move toward Christ?